Most mothers would be shouting from the rooftops if their daughter snagged George Clooney.
But
the mom of Clooney's fiancée, Amal Alamuddin, is not so impressed with
her daughter’s choice - and instead wanted her to marry within their
strict Lebanese religious sect, according to close family friends.
High-profile
human-rights lawyer Amal, 37, was born in Beirut to a prominent and
highly respected family within the Druze sect, a medieval offshoot of
Islam, who are forbidden to marry outsiders. For traditional Druze
families intermarriage results in excommunication and social boycott.
Fled: Baria and Ramzi Alamuddin fled war-torn
Beirut with their young daughter Amal and moved to the UK. Baria now
lives in Buckinghamshire, UK, while Ramzi moved back to Lebanon in 1991
Family affair: George Clooney stepped out to
dinner with his fiance Amal Alamuddin and parents Nick and Nina on
Wednesday in Lake Como, Italy
And
a Lebanese friend of the family in London, where Amal was raised and
Baria still lives, told MailOnline: ‘You would think Amal has hit the
jackpot with George Clooney, but Baria is not
happy.
'She thinks Amal can do better. She has been telling half of
Beirut, in fact anyone that will listen, there are five hundred
thousand Druze. Are none of them good enough for her?'.
There can
be harsh penalties for those Druze who marry outsiders. Several women
have been murdered for disobeying the rules. Last year a Sunni Muslim
man had his penis severed by the male relatives of a Druze woman who
defied her family by marrying him.
The friend added: ‘There have a been a few jokes in the family about the same thing happening to George!'
Druze
make up around five per cent of Lebanon and number about a million
worldwide, a community that is gradually shrinking as you cannot convert to
be a Druze - and are only considered a member of the religion only if both your
parents are Druze.
Those who marry outside the religion are cast
out of the community and not allowed to return. Druze sheikhs will cut
them off and refuse to pray over their grave when they die.
If George
and Amal have children she will be unable to pass on her religion to
them.
Their wedding, thought to be taking place near Lake Como on September 12 will not be a Druze wedding and Druze sheiks will not
officiate, as Amal will be considered to be leaving the community and
taking on the traditions of her husband, the source explained.
A civil
wedding may offer a loophole in that she may be allowed to keep her
religion.
The Alamuddin are a feudal aristocratic family that
trace their roots back to the 14th century. The family still owns vast
landsand and their ancestral home is one of the grandest in the mountain
village of Ba’qalien, where Amal's father, Ramzi was born and
raised.
Still, Baria flew to Clooney's Italian villa on Lake Como over the weekend of June 21 and 22, where according to People, Clooney, 53, put on the charm and the visit was a success.
'They were outside, and Amal and her mom were smiling.It was going pretty great,' a source said.
'Amal's mom left the next day, and at the airport they just looked so happy.'
Amal,
whose clients include under-fire Wikileaks founder Julian Assange, was
then seen accompanying her mother to Milan airport on Monday, June 23.
A nice night out: The movie star's family and friends joined the happy couple for dinner
Satisfied customer: The 53-year-old looked to have enjoyed the evening out
Just
a day later, Clooney's parents Nick and Nina Clooney arrived at Lake
Como from their home in Kentucky to help with wedding plans - missing
Baria.
Wearing a dapper dark
toned suit and matching shirt (sans tie), the Ocean's Eleven actor
sported black leather dress shoes as he enjoyed the night out with his loved
ones.
George’s
mother Nina, a former beauty queen and councilwoman, and former
anchorman and game show host father Nick, were spotted visiting the
luxurious Hotel Bellagio.
They
couldn’t have looked more pleased for the Oscar winner as they giggled away on a boat ride to the resort.
Clooney
and Amal are believed to have checked out Hotel Villa D’Este at
Cernobbio, which is famous for organizing high-profile weddings, and
enjoyed a romantic dinner there.But the Gravity star may well tie the knot with Amal at his own home.
Laws have been put in place by the Lake Como mayor to guarantee George’s privacy at his $42 million mansion, and are in operation 24 hours a day until September 30.
Pedestrians are banned from stopping on the road outside the 30-bedroom property, while anyone caught swimming within 100 metres of it will be fined up to £770.
Nina has previously expressed her fondness for her future daughter-in-law, who she has met several times, telling MailOnline: ‘You can say I’m extremely happy. Amal’s a lovely girl. I like her very much.’
Planning: Clooney's aunt Starla Clooney told how
his parents were flying to Italy to help their Oscar winner son plan
his September wedding
Nick, who turned 80 this year, will be celebrating his 55th wedding anniversary with Nina, 74, in August.
Striking Amal was just two when she moved from Beirut to London at the time of the civil war.
The brunette, who is now a British citizen, was brought up by her mother Baria and father Ramzi, who moved back to
Baria,
66, is the foreign editor of Al Hayat, a widely-read Arab newspaper,
and has made numerous appearances as an analyst on Middle Eastern
affairs on CNN and Al-Jazeera as well as CNBC, the BBC and Sky News in
the UK.
Her
beauty was said to be so striking that she has been said to resemble
Elizabeth Taylor - while the poet Said Aki praised her 'Greek' beauty in
poem.
She
has interviewed numerous heads of state including King Hamad Bin Issa
Alkhalifa, President Hosni Moubarak, King Hussain of Jordan, Prime
Minister Tony Blair, President Bill Clinton, Prime Minister Margaret
Thatcher and President Fidel Castro - and was the last journalist to
talk to Indira Gandhi before she died.
Not long now: George Clooney will marry Amal Alamuddin in Italy in September.The pair are pictured together in Malibu in May
She once said: 'I speak on behalf of moderate Muslims who are being cast aside in this war against terrorism.'
And
it would seem that Amal comes from good stock as her grandmother was
the first woman graduate of the American University in Beirut.It is believed that Baria and Ramzi fled Lebanon at the time of the civil war, however, Ramzi moved back in 1991.
Ramzi was formerly a university professor and is the ex-vice president of the American University of Beirut.
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