Wednesday, 11 September 2013

'She could not see clearly': Gia Allemand's mother says her daughter's menstrual cycle may have contributed to her tragic suicide as she opens up about her death on Dr. Phil

Gia Allemand's shocking suicide last month saddened Bachelor fans worldwide.
And now Gia's mother Donna Micheletti has once again opened up about her daughter's death on Tuesday's episode of Dr. Phil.
On the programme, she revealed that her daughter suffered from very large mood swings around the time she was menstruating.
Heartbroken: Bachelor star Gia Allemand's mother Donna Micheletti tearfully recalled her daughter's final moments on Tuesday's episode of Dr. Phil
Heartbroken: Bachelor star Gia Allemand's mother Donna Micheletti tearfully recalled her daughter's final moments on Tuesday's episode of Dr. Phil
She said that Gia would often ponder her relationship with boyfriend, NBA player beau
Ryan Anderson, when she was suffering from PMS, and claimed that Gia's menstrual cycle affected her emotional state before her death last month.
'At that point, with how she felt with her menstrual cycle, she could not see clearly ...' her mother explained on the show.
'It was like night and day. It would come out of nowhere. All of a sudden, something would click in there and she would say 'This isn't right. He doesn't love me.'
'She said she was so tired of being hurt': The grieving mother revealed that the 29-year-old had abandonment issues and severe mood swings due to her menstrual cycle
'She said she was so tired of being hurt': The grieving mother revealed that the 29-year-old had abandonment issues and severe mood swings due to her menstrual cycle
Donna also tearfully recalled her daughter's final moments.
'She did it (committed suicide) while I was talking to her (on the phone),' Donna told the 63-year-old talk show host before an empty audience. 'I heard her last breath.'
On August 12, the 29-year-old reality starlet hung herself after fighting with Anderson.
'She said she was so tired of being hurt, and then I realized she was saying goodbye,' Micheletti recalled to the psychologist.
'I was saying to her, "Sunshine, princess, we can make it together." I’m the closest person in the world to her and she didn’t want to be alone when she left this world. So she wanted Mommy to be there, I guess. I have no regrets. That sounds bad, but we had our last conversation, and thats all she wanted.' 
Tragic: On August 12, the reality starlet hung herself with a vacuum cleaner cord after fighting with her NBA player beau Ryan Anderson
Tragic: On August 12, the reality starlet hung herself with a vacuum cleaner cord after fighting with her NBA player beau Ryan Anderson
'Talk to your mom and your best friend. Let people in': Anderson and Micheletti are already collaborating on creating a foundation in Allemand's honor
'Talk to your mom and your best friend. Let people in': Anderson and Micheletti are already collaborating on creating a foundation in Allemand's honor
Gia had just booked her mother tickets to come to see her in New Orleans and was talking about moving back to New York.
'She did it when I couldn’t understand her anymore. Then it was dead silence. I said "Wake up!" I texted Ryan. I thought she was mumbling,' Donna said.
'I didn’t know what it was until after the fact. I stayed on for 10 minutes. I didn’t want to hang up. I tried other phones to call Ryan. But [the line with Gia] got disconnected.'
After Gia's boyfriend found her at her New Orleans home, she was rushed to the hospital.
'She did it while I was talking to her': Donna told the 63-year-old talk show host that she stayed on the phone with her daughter for 10 minutes until she was disconnected
'She did it while I was talking to her': Donna told the 63-year-old talk show host that she stayed on the phone with her daughter for 10 minutes until she was disconnected
'Are you mad at Gia?' Micheletti told McGraw that Allemand had abandonment issues stemming from her abusive father who would say, 'lose my number'
'Are you mad at Gia?' Micheletti told McGraw that Allemand had abandonment issues stemming from her abusive father who would say, 'lose my number'
'It destroys me, but if it made her feel better, then that's just fine': Micheletti opened up about her agonizing decision to take her daughter off life support due to brain and organ failure
'It destroys me, but if it made her feel better, then that's just fine': Micheletti opened up about her agonizing decision to take her daughter off life support due to brain and organ failure
The next day, Micheletti made the agonizing decision to take her daughter off life support due to brain and organ failure.
Donna remembered: 'She was hooked up to life support. She looked beautiful. I couldn’t believe she could still look that good. I was hoping [for recovery] but I knew she was gone.'
'It destroys me, but if it made her feel better,' Micheletti told the Oprah Winfrey favourite. 'Then that's just fine...I don’t mind dealing with this.'
'I tried to take her to therapy, but I couldn¿t force her to do it': Donna also revealed that the police department still have Gia's suicide note, which she plans on eventually sharing with fans
'I tried to take her to therapy, but I couldn’t force her to do it': Donna also revealed that the police department still have Gia's suicide note, which she plans on eventually sharing with fans
Sad: When Gia was on life support, Donna 'couldn't believe she could still look that good. I was hoping [for recovery] but I knew she was gone'
Sad: When Gia was on life support, Donna 'couldn't believe she could still look that good. I was hoping [for recovery] but I knew she was gone'
Mourning: Micheletti walked out of Gia's funeral in New York August 22 on the arm of her daughter's boyfriend, NBA player Ryan Anderson
Mourning: Micheletti walked out of Gia's funeral in New York August 22 on the arm of her daughter's boyfriend, NBA player Ryan Anderson
Micheletti told McGraw that Allemand had abandonment issues stemming from her abusive father who would say, 'lose my number.'
'She looked for fights with her boyfriend because of insecurities. I tried to take her to therapy, but I couldn’t force her to do it,' she said.
'She would look for fault in people to push them away, and was fearful of abandonment. She would go to dark spots during "that time of the month." She believed exactly what she thought and apologized for no reason.'
Hormonal spikes: Donna believes that part of the reason for Gia's abrupt mood swings was 'that time of the month' where she would 'believe exactly what she thought and apologized for no reason'
Hormonal spikes: Donna believes that part of the reason for Gia's abrupt mood swings was 'that time of the month' where she would 'believe exactly what she thought and apologized for no reason'
Donna also revealed that the police department still have Gia's suicide note, which she plans on eventually sharing with fans.
The grieving mother and boyfriend are already collaborating on creating a foundation in Allemand's honor.
She parted on this advice: 'Talk to your mom and your best friend. Let people in. You say you don’t have anyone, but you are just pushing others away.'

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